Wednesday, December 30, 2009

LETTING GO

I don't want you to try to talk another person intostaying with you, loving you, calling you, caringabout you, coming to see you, staying attached to you.I mean hang up the phone.When people can walk away from you let them walk.Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.People leave you because they are not joined to you.And if they are not joined to you, you can't make themstay. Let them go.And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person, itjust means that their part in the story is over. Andyou've got to know when people's part in your story isover so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.You've got to know when it's dead. You've got to knowwhen it's over. Let me tell you something.If you are holding on to something that doesn't belongto you and was never intended for your life, then youneed to ..LET IT GO!!!If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ...LET IT GO!!!If someone can't treat you right, love you back, andsee your worth...LET IT GO!!!If someone has angered you ...LET IT GO!!!If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil andrevenge .LET IT GO!!!If you are involved in a wrong relationship oraddiction ...LET IT GO!!!If you are holding on to a job that no longer meetsyour needs or talents ..LET IT GO!!!If you have a bad attitude...LET IT GO!!!If you keep judging others to make yourself feelbetter...LET IT GO!!!If you're stuck in the pastLET IT GO!!!If you are struggling with the healing of a brokenrelationship......LET IT GO!!!If you keep trying to help someone who won't eventry to help themselves..LET IT GO!!!If you're feeling depressed and stressed ....LET IT GO!!!Let the past be the past.Forget the former things.LETTING GO TAKES LOVETo let go does not mean to stop caring,it means I can't do it for someone else.To let go is not to cut myself off,it's the realization I can't control another.To let go is not to enable,but allow learning from natural consequences.To let go is to admit powerlessness, which meansthe outcome is not in my hands.To let go is not to try to change or blame another,it's to make the most of myself.To let go is not to care for,but to care about.To let go is not to fix,but to be supportive.To let go is not to judge,but to allow another to be a human being.To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,but to allow others to affect their destinies.To let go is not to be protective,it's to permit another to face reality.To let go is not to deny,but to accept.To let go is not to nag, scold or argue,but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires,but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.To let go is not to criticize or regulate anybody,but to try to become what I dream I can be.To let go is not to regret the past,but to grow and live for the future.To let go is to fear less and love moreRemember: The time to love is short

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